Linda’s first day as an escort will forever remain in her memory. She had at last decided that working as an escort was for her and this was going to be her first day, she had to make it the best!
In most societies, work as an escort is always regarded as sex trade and as such, people consider it a dirty game and those in it are regarded as prostitutes. They are always abused and disregarded as everyone thinks there are there to be used. These are the thoughts that Linda had on that first escort date. She felt shy, low and nervous at the same time. What could people think about her? Had she turned into a prostitute? Was she so simple to be used as a sex tool?
She was going to meet this guy, a total stranger to her for the first time. They had hooked up on an agency site. The managers at the site had really stressed on why it was important not to let the agency down. He had told her that she represents the whole agency. That she should be up for the task. They had gone on to tell her how they regarded professionalism and integrity in that kind of work. They had told her that if she messed up, she would lose her career. As she went out to meet her guy, Linda was a stressed girl. Pressured by the agency and her own fear, nervousness, and shame.
They were supposed to meet in a certain hotel in town. The guy had described himself and had directed Linda on what to wear. As she walked into that hotel, Linda hoped that she would not find anyone that would recognize her there.
However, Linda’s fears were short-lived. As she walked towards the guy, she realized that he was not near what she had expected. The guy was well dressed, soft looking and wore a handsome smile on his face. Linda wondered what business this man had looking for escort girls! She thought, ‘’this guy is supposed to be somewhere with his family’’, He looked too cool to be hanging out with strange girls and for sex!
What followed completely changed Linda’s view about her new work as an escort. Yes, she was there for sex, yes, she had to meet the man’s demands but the man made her feel at home. He was open, understanding and fun to be with. He seemed to sense that it was Linda’s first time as an escort. He made Linda realize that being an escort is not all about sex. He told her that she was different from prostitutes. He told her that he chose escorts because they had class. They understood what was happening and was fun being with.
This guy particularly praised Linda for her beauty and her seemingly knowledge of what was happening in the world. He asked her to view their meeting as a real date rather than a sexual encounter. Yes, at the end they had sex, but it was more of love making, between two people who had finally developed a liking for each other and they had sex because they both wanted to!
As Linda walked back to her apartment that day, she had gained more than money. She had learnt a lesson. Yes, they had to go different ways, but she didn’t feel like she had sold herself for sex. She had done well on her first date, even for an experienced escort. She realized that it was all about attitude and escort work was not a bad thing after all!
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